Suzhou Oushida's first book sharing meeting: full of books and sharing insights
The first book sharing session of Suzhou Oushida kicked off in a warm atmosphere. Chairman Yu Wenmao first extended a warm welcome to the book lovers. Afterwards, each book lover shared his or her reading experience in turn. Let us walk into this reading feast full of wisdom and insights.
"The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People"
The key to a highly effective life
The "Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" shared by Lu Ranran is like a beacon, illuminating the path of people's pursuit of an efficient life. These seven habits - being proactive, beginning with the end in mind, putting first things first, win-win thinking, knowing yourself and others, integrating synergy, and constantly updating - are a mutually reinforcing whole. The book emphasizes that being proactive is an attitude that can transform people from passively coping with life to actively creating life; beginning with the end in mind reminds us to have clear goals and use them to guide our actions; putting first things first allows us to learn to reasonably allocate time and energy and focus on the most important things;
Win-win thinking can help us achieve mutual benefit and win-win in interpersonal communication; knowing others and understanding ourselves requires us to understand others first, and then seek to be understood; integrated synergy advocates teamwork and achieves the effect of 1+1>2; continuous renewal encourages us to continuously improve in physical, mental, intellectual, social and emotional aspects.
Reading can improve people's cultural quality and spiritual cultivation. Developing the habit of reading from an early age will accumulate the most precious wealth for children's lives!
"You are your child's best toy"
A warm guide to parenting
Lan Xingmiao shared "You Are Your Child's Best Toy", which provides parents with practical parenting methods. Emotional guidance is one of the core ideas of this book. By guiding children to express their feelings, parents can better understand their children's inner world and make their children feel understood and respected. It is also crucial to clarify the rules and establish a reward and punishment system, which can help children establish the correct code of conduct. Communication skills are the bridge for parents and children to establish a good relationship. Using positive language and respecting children's ideas can make children more willing to communicate with their parents, and also help cultivate children's self-confidence and independent thinking ability.
The Way of the Wolf: Draw Strength from Wolf Nature
Luo Jing shared "The Way of the Wolf" which broke people's traditional perception of wolves. Wolves survive in harsh environments, and their team spirit is admirable. In a wolf pack, each wolf has a clear division of labor, they cooperate and support each other, and work hard to achieve a common goal. This team spirit can be applied to our work, so that we can unite and move forward like a wolf pack when facing difficulties and challenges. At the same time, the courage and perseverance of wolves are also worth learning from. When they are chasing prey, no matter how great the difficulties and setbacks they encounter, they will not give up easily.
"One sentence is worth ten thousand sentences"
The soul's search in loneliness
Zhang Zaiqiang's book "One Sentence is Worth Ten Thousand Sentences" makes us deeply feel that loneliness is the norm in life. The characters in the book are all looking for people who can talk to them in the vast sea of people, looking for the opportunity to understand their souls. This search is not a simple encounter between people, but the fit between one sentence and another. In pain and loneliness, people begin to examine their own hearts, and continue to grow and transform. It makes us understand that the meaning of life may lie in these searches and encounters. Even if loneliness is inevitable, we still have to hold hope and look for words and people who can warm our hearts.
"To Live" understands the true meaning of life
"To Live" shared by Chen Xueyan and Zhu Xiaowei shows us the tenacity and fragility of life. The protagonist Fugui in the book has experienced countless hardships and setbacks, but he still lives on tenaciously because he understands that the essence of living is to live for the sake of living, not for anything else. Life is full of suffering, but those short-lived sweetness and beauty make us cherish the preciousness of life even more. This book makes us deeply realize that no matter how much pressure and challenges life gives us, we must maintain our awe and love for life and move forward bravely.
The Way of Life: Adhere to the spirit of altruism
Zhou Zangxia shared the book "The Way of Life", which is a classic work by Kazuo Inamori. The book emphasizes the importance of altruism. Kazuo Inamori believes that only when a person has an altruistic heart can he truly realize his own value. When we pursue helping others and contributing to society, we will find that our hearts become more fulfilled and satisfied. This altruistic heart can not only make us successful in our careers, but also allow us to gain sincere friendships and a happy life.
"Selected Works of Nan Huai-Chin" - Understanding the Way of Conducting People
The Selected Works of Nan Huai-Chin shared by Wu Dewen contains profound wisdom in dealing with people. The book teaches us to have insight and be able to see the essence and development trend of things. We should be modest and restrained, not show off, and treat others and life with a peaceful attitude. At the same time, we should also pay attention to moral cultivation and be full of heart, so that we can gain a foothold in a complex society and win the respect and trust of others.
"Chinese Face Studies" The Wisdom Behind Face
Tang Caihua's "Chinese Face Studies" made us realize the importance of face in interpersonal communication. Giving people face and not hurting their self-esteem is a manifestation of respect and understanding for others. In life, we must learn to think from others' perspectives and consider issues from other people's perspectives. Don't hurt others' face because of momentary impulse or selfishness. This will not only maintain good interpersonal relationships, but also allow us to gain more friendships and help.
The pain and joy of growing up in "Eighteen Years Old Journey"
"Eighteen-year-old Journey" shared by Mu Wenjuan tells the story of a teenager's experience and feelings on the road of growth. Eighteen years old is an age full of dreams and hopes. The boy embarked on a long journey, which not only brought him the joy of growth but also the hardships of the journey. In the process, he encountered various setbacks and difficulties, but it was these experiences that made him gradually grow and mature. This book reminds us of our youth and makes us understand that although the road of life is full of pain and challenges, as long as we hold dreams and courage, we will be able to create our own brilliance.
The Dialectical Unity of Theory and Practice in On Practice
The book "On Practice" shared by Wang Xiaojian is a classic work of Mao Zedong. This book emphasizes the importance of practice and tells us that although theory is important, only by combining theory with actual conditions and making adjustments and innovations according to actual conditions can the guiding role of theory be truly brought into play. In work and life, we cannot blindly copy theories, but must be brave in practice, good at reflection, and constantly sum up experience and lessons, so that we can continue to make progress and development.
The Moon and Sixpence
The choice between ideal and reality
The book "The Moon and Sixpence" shared by Cheng Yu and Ji Junlong explores the conflict between ideals and reality. In order to pursue his artistic ideals, the protagonist in the book gave up his stable life and superior conditions and resolutely embarked on the road of pursuing his dreams. In real life, we often face such a choice: should we choose the stable sixpence or bravely pursue the moon in our hearts? This book makes us think about what the value of life is, how we should find a balance between ideals and reality, and achieve our life goals.
"The Wisdom of Life" "Emotional Control""Sales Meeting Negotiation" are two books of wisdom with their own merits
The books shared by Shen Leidong, Emotion Control, Tang Yi, Sales Meeting Negotiation, Lin Ling, and Zhang Kai, Inferiority and Transcendence, all brought different inspirations to the readers. The Wisdom of Life makes us think about how to live a happy and meaningful life; Emotion Control teaches us to learn to manage our emotions and be the master of our emotions; Sales Meeting Negotiation provides practical skills and strategies for people engaged in sales and negotiation. Inferiority and Transcendence takes us to explore the inferiority complex deep in the human heart and its transformative power.
"There is nothing in life that cannot be let go"
The key to spiritual liberation
Wang Dafang shared "Nothing in Life That Cannot Be Let Go", which provides us with an open-minded attitude towards life. Many troubles and obsessions in life often bind our hearts. This book teaches us to learn to let go and face gains and losses with a peaceful mind. When we no longer cling to the past and external things, we can gain inner peace and freedom, travel light, and welcome every beautiful moment of life.
